"Control To Release"

 

Mindset is everything...

Understand the difference in perspective...

You don't always need a concrete plan

It's the action forward put into motion that matters

Breathe...

Have trust in yourself...

Sometimes it's the smallest action that has the biggest effect

Accept accountability and responsibility for your life

You control the direction taken...

No one can force you along a path that was never created for you...

Respect yourself enough to walk away from everything that violates your values

You can never erase what has happened to you...

It's the experience of learning within humanity that has shaped you

Inside all of that change, there is a choice...

To choose to put it behind you...

Directly underneath your feet

And rise above...

Letting go does not mean that you do not care

It just means that you have the control to release yourself from the heavy weight

Seek the answer...

Ask why a being is trying to hurt you...

But more importantly, ask why you are letting them hurt you...

It makes us understand reality...

That the hardest battles are the ones we fight within ourselves with ourselves

Sometimes the scars on the inside take a little longer to mend together than the ones on the outside

So we must remember this always...

Nothing takes more courage than putting yourself back together again

No person in this world is worth jeopardizing your mental health...

And never apologize for how you have or are healing from damage that another has caused

Happiness is a choice, not a result...

It must be embraced with arms wide open...

It is something that can't come to you, only from you...

Making it something you can to for yourself today...

So you may get closer to where you want to be tomorrow.

© 2024

"Chance To Learn"

  

Yes, you can...

A sentence to believe...

One that should be repeated as many times as needed...

It is the most difficult battle we will ever fight

Between what we feel, and what we know...

We cannot run from ourselves

We can only attempt to do our best

Protecting what we have...

By never becoming like those who have hurt us

Why is it that those who have never lived our lives have so much to say about it?

Yet we let them tie our laces, forcing us to walk within shoes we never wanted to wear...

Just because they have allowed themselves to become cruel, does not mean we have to follow

Loyalty...

Respect...

Or even kindness does not mean you have to receive unlimited pain from broken people

Because criticism from those who have only traumatized us, is manipulation...

And unconditional love, does not mean unconditional tolerance...

The ownership of our being is our right to own

We are more a like, than all created differences

Our pain is not exclusive...

Just like our individual beauty is not ordinary

There is a thread linking it all...

The unknown gives us a chance to learn

Don't let history dictate destiny

We are who are supposed to be

We are not perfection...

We are human beings living within humanity

Mind it with care...

Be clear upon your presence...

Know the weight carried...

And live your life on purpose.

© 2024

"Ride of Life"

 

We are the first break of light...

That soft whisper of another beginning...

When darkness fades into bright...

As this gentle reminder speaks to you

Keep your focus ahead of your feet aiming forward

You are not lost...

You are just in that uncomfortable stage in life where you are transitioning

The old you is now gone...

And your new self is not fully born yet

Because some moments do try to destroy us

It is the gift within hardship now understood

Life is constant learning...

There will be significant times of struggle

Periods of calm...

And then unbearable pain...

It's not all bad, and it's not all good...

That is why some refer to it as the ride of life

It's the up and down, the unfair and real, and the mixture of it all with us embraced in between

Our journey will always continue in one form or another

And this is where we get to choose

If you are actively digging through the pieces...

That is a conscious decision...

If you are going to unearth it, you might as well unbox it, and sort through it

Make the attempt in healing

Allow it to hurt a little less

The sins of another do not define us

Those who only ever violate our boundaries

Are thieves, stealing everything that does not belong to them

Turn wounds into wisdom gained

Accept full responsibility for your life by making your decision known

Mistakes do not define everything that we are

Growth comes from all experience

It gives us the determination to succeed

Our past should stay where it is and be left laid to rest

Making our new beginning better than any setback ever was.

© 2024

"To Keep Yourself"

Time determines a lot of things...

The heart decides the want...

And behavior concludes who and what stays within our life...

Can you jeopardize those things that you cannot replace?

Our worth is not based upon the opinions of others

Positivity actively embraced...

Is better than constant dark negativity lived

Having care with your emotions is not weakness

And gentleness is not a lack of strength...

It is strength under control

Because every day the decision is made

To rise above that which attempts to bury you deep

Always have hope...

By looking to the light of the approaching day

And begin again...

We are shaped by the hands of experience

It is the adventure of existence

Today is our history in the making

The ownership of burden is not ours...

To attempt to rebuild bonds and connections we did not break

We all have our own path...

And we will never be truly happy if we are led to live someone else's idea of our life

Because two of the biggest thieves of the present are the past and future

The more time we spend in either one, the less reality we have left

Be these moments now...

Understand the choice taken and the difference made

Forgiving yourself has nothing to do with absolving those who have trespassed against you

It has everything to do with relieving yourself of the burden of being the victim

Release the pain...

Let it transform from loss...

To the survivor that you are.

© 2024